Divorce Financial Consulting
Divorce Financial Planning + Coaching
A Mediator for Divorce in Cary, NC
CDFA Guidance on the Business of Divorce
The Difference a Divorce Financial Consultant can Make
I help you move forward with clarity
Divorce doesn’t just divide assets—it reshapes your entire financial life.
You’ve supported one household together. Now you’re expected to support two—often with the same income and even greater complexity.
You may be wondering:
These aren’t just legal questions—they’re financial ones. And they deserve more than a quick once-over.
You can’t look at your finances in silos.
Everything—income, expenses, assets, debts, obligations, and dreams—needs to be assessed as a whole. That’s how you make informed, confident decisions that align with your goals.
You deserve clarity, strategy, and support before you sign anything.
Whether you’re contemplating divorce or already deep in the process, I meet you where you are—with guidance that’s tailored, honest, and empowering.
I’m not here to sell you financial products or manage your investments.
I’ve stepped away from holding securities licenses so I can serve as a neutral, flat-fee consultant and coach—focused solely on your clarity and best interest. My work is efficient, strategic, and rooted in real support. No hidden costs. No surprises. Just deep, focused work that moves you forward.
As your Divorce Financial Consultant, I help you organize, analyze, and model the details of your financial picture—so you can make informed, confident decisions about your divorce settlement. We walk through income, expenses, assets, and debts—and explore what different settlement scenarios could mean for your long-term future. This isn’t guesswork. It’s strategy.
You’ll leave with a personalized financial roadmap designed to support you through divorce—and beyond.
You bring your questions, your numbers, and your what-ifs. I bring structure, critical thinking, and deep listening.
Together, we clarify what matters most to you and prepare for the financial conversations ahead. This is a guided space to slow down, think through the options, and make informed choices that align with your values, goals, and future.
You don’t have to do this alone. I’m here to help you make confident decisions—on your terms.
Empowered Separation Mediation
You bring your financial facts, your concerns, and your goals. I bring a calm, strategic space to think things through—together.
As your financial mediator, I guide both of you through the practical and emotional aspects of preparing for informed settlement discussions. We organize the details, explore options, and clarify what’s most important to each of you—so you can move forward with mutual understanding and confidence. This is about reducing conflict, increasing clarity, and finding common ground for what comes next.
We work through the financial details before you hire legal counsel.
Need Divorce Advice Without the Commitment of a Full Package?
Not every decision requires a deep dive.
Sometimes, what you need most is a space to pause, reflect, and think strategically with someone who understands both the emotional weight and the financial stakes of divorce.
That’s what Velvet Chair | Office Hours with Jessica and Office Hours Deluxe are designed for.
These are focused, no-pressure sessions that bring my best thinking to your most pressing concerns.
They’re ideal when:
These sessions are not a replacement for a consultation or full-service planning.
They’re an accessible option to help you get unstuck, get perspective, and move forward with greater confidence.
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Ready to take the first step toward clarity and confidence with a Consultation?
Let’s talk about where you are, what you need, and how I can help you move forward—with strategy, support, and peace of mind.
Peace of mind and financial well-being during divorce is our goal . We begin with understanding your vision for the future and your key financial objectives. This crucial step ensures our guidance aligns with your unique needs.
You'll receive access to our secure digital platform to upload relevant financial documents. We provide user-friendly worksheets to compile your financial information and organize financial facts.
We conduct a review of your submitted information. We analyze your current financial circumstances and explore potential courses of action, evaluating the pros and cons of various financial choices.
Based on your case we create clear, practical settlement scenarios tailored to your situation. These are designed to help you achieve your financial objectives and navigate negotiations confidently.
A digital financial workbook that summarizes your financial facts; income, expenses, assets, debts. This valuable tool serves as a blueprint for your
future.
As appropriate, we offer follow-up services to provide continued support, engage with your legal counsel, or through Mediation with your spouse, as you move forward.
Divorce Finncial Planning + Mediation Services.
All data and information provided on this site is strictly the opinion of BrainstormingWomen, LLC and does not constitute any financial, legal, or other type of advice.
We are not attorneys and do not provide legal advice. We are not a CPA firm.
We do not make any personal investments on behalf of our clients, nor do we provide investment advice. We do not sell any financial/investment/insurance products.
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