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Divorce Financial Planning in Cary, NC
Navigating the Finances of Divorce?
Divorce Financial Coaching in Raleigh, NC
Decode the Finances of Divorce
Divorce is More Than a Legal Process
Divorce isn’t just an emotional journey—it’s a financial transformation. You’ve supported one household together, and now you’re tasked with sustaining two with the same income.
You may be wondering:
- How will I maintain my lifestyle?
- Can I secure my children’s future without sacrificing my own stability?
- What steps will protect me from hidden pitfalls and costly surprises?
The reality is that you cannot look at only one part of your finances at a time, they must be assessed as a whole picture, so you feel confident when you are negotiating for your future..
You don’t have to find the answers alone—let’s explore them together.
Divorce is hard enough—you deserve support that makes it easier, not more complicated before you sign on the dotted line of your Settlement Agreement.. This is a crucial point.
My approach is different by design. I don't sell financial products and I’ve stepped away from holding any securities licenses entirely. Instead, I offer flat-fee, value-packed services so you know what to expect—no hidden costs, no surprises. Together, we do the deep, focused work that moves you forward, without dragging out an already difficult process. Whether you're planning your next steps or in the thick of it, our services are built to meet you where you are:
Turn overwhelm into organization. We help you gather, analyze, and model your financial life so you can make informed decisions of your financial settlement with confidence. Income, expense, assets, debt it is all relevant, just as crafting long term projections of the best settlement scenarios to consider. This is your personalized roadmap through divorce - in a day!
Strategic, supportive, and empowering. You gather and organize the numbers, we guide you through the aspects of preparing for informed settlement negotiations, helping you think critically and make choices aligned with your goals. Spend a morning with me working through your upcoming decisions.
Empowered Separation Mediation
Designed for spouses, this process brings clarity and calm to even the most difficult conversations. It’s not just mediation—it’s financial planning for two, with structure and compassion every step of the way. We work through the math before you hire legal counsel.
The Velvet Chair | Office Hours with Jessica
You don't know what you don't know. You would love to speak with a divorce financial expert. This is not a consultation about services, it is an hour of focused time addressing whatever issue or question you have. There is no prepping or planning for the call, just presence and critical thinking with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA). Also have an in person deluxe version in my Raleigh office.
Ready to take the first step toward financial clarity?
Schedule Your Consultation and let’s talk about what’s possible—for your future, your peace of mind, and your next chapter.
Your Next Step to Financial Confidence
Choose the option that best fits in your journey
A Client-Focused Divorce Financial Experience
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
Peace of mind and financial well-being during divorce is our goal . We begin with understanding your vision for the future and your key financial objectives. This crucial step ensures our guidance aligns with your unique needs.
Gather + Organize the Numbers
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
You'll receive access to our secure digital platform to upload relevant financial documents. We provide user-friendly worksheets to compile your financial information and organize financial facts.
Deep Dive into Your Finances
Identify Your Goals + Priorities
Deep Dive into Your Finances
We conduct a review of your submitted information. We analyze your current financial circumstances and explore potential courses of action, evaluating the pros and cons of various financial choices.
Develop Projections
Divorce Financial Workbook
Deep Dive into Your Finances
Based on your case we create clear, practical settlement scenarios tailored to your situation. These are designed to help you achieve your financial objectives and navigate negotiations confidently.
Divorce Financial Workbook
Divorce Financial Workbook
Divorce Financial Workbook
A digital financial workbook that summarizes your financial facts; income, expenses, assets, debts. This valuable tool serves as a blueprint for your
future.
Follow-up Support
Divorce Financial Workbook
Divorce Financial Workbook
As appropriate, we offer follow-up services to provide continued support, engage with your legal counsel, or through Mediation with your spouse, as you move forward.
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Strategy to preserve your lifestyle | Clarity to make informed decisions | Resilience to thrive
Turning Fear into Strength: Voices from the Divorce Journey
Wherever Your Are in The Process - We Can Help
Pre-Divorce
During Divorce
During Divorce
Are you considering divorce?
You may feel overwhelmed by uncertainty, worried about the financial implications of such a big decision. This stage is critical for setting yourself up for success, even if you're still gathering your thoughts. Together, we may:
- Assess your financial picture so you know where you stand.
- Help you understand the f
Are you considering divorce?
You may feel overwhelmed by uncertainty, worried about the financial implications of such a big decision. This stage is critical for setting yourself up for success, even if you're still gathering your thoughts. Together, we may:
- Assess your financial picture so you know where you stand.
- Help you understand the financial aspects of divorce, empowering you to make informed choices.
- Develop a game plan for your future—before any papers are filed.
During Divorce
During Divorce
During Divorce
Are you navigating the complexities of divorce and want to get it right?
Whether you're preparing to negotiate a fair settlement, assessing a proposal, or facing financial questions during the process, this is where I shine.
With my expert guidance, you’ll:
- Understand the details of your assets, income, cash-flow.
- Feel confident walking into
Are you navigating the complexities of divorce and want to get it right?
Whether you're preparing to negotiate a fair settlement, assessing a proposal, or facing financial questions during the process, this is where I shine.
With my expert guidance, you’ll:
- Understand the details of your assets, income, cash-flow.
- Feel confident walking into negotiations, knowing you're fully prepared.
- Avoid costly mistakes by making decisions with clarity and purpose.
Post-Divorce
During Divorce
Post-Divorce
Life after divorce can feel like starting over.
You’ve signed the papers, but now you’re asking, “What’s next?” This stage is all about reclaiming your power and building a solid foundation for your future. I can help you:
- Review your agreement and what next steps may be needed.
- Organize and optimize your new financial life.
- Build a spending
Life after divorce can feel like starting over.
You’ve signed the papers, but now you’re asking, “What’s next?” This stage is all about reclaiming your power and building a solid foundation for your future. I can help you:
- Review your agreement and what next steps may be needed.
- Organize and optimize your new financial life.
- Build a spending plan to achieve your financial goals.
- Transform uncertainty into confidence as you create your next chapter.
Understanding Our Divorce Services
Divorce Finncial Planning + Mediation Services.
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We are not attorneys and do not provide legal advice. We are not a CPA firm.
We do not make any personal investments on behalf of our clients, nor do we provide investment advice. We do not sell any financial/investment/insurance products.
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